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Love Your Enemies

Love Your Enemies

This message is a timeless and beautifully articulated call for love no matter what. A love that is understanding, creative, and carries redemptive goodwill for all.
Sermon length:
10
minutes
Speaker/author:
Martin Luther King Jr.
Video

Transcript

So I want to turn your attention to this subject: "Loving Your Enemies." It’s so basic to me because it is a part of my basic philosophical and theological orientation—the whole idea of love, the whole philosophy of love. In the fifth chapter of the gospel as recorded by Saint Matthew, we read these very arresting words flowing from the lips of our Lord and Master: "Ye have heard that it has been said, ‘Thou shall love thy neighbor, and hate thine enemy.’ But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them that spitefully use you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven." Certainly these are great words, words lifted to cosmic proportions.

The Greek language comes out with another word for love. It is the word agape. And agape is more than eros; agape is more than philia; agape is something of the understanding, creative, redemptive goodwill for all men. It is a love that seeks nothing in return. It is an overflowing love; it’s what theologians would call the love of God working in the lives of men. And when you rise to love on this level, you begin to love men, not because they are likeable, but because God loves them. You look at every man, and you love him because you know God loves him. And he might be the worst person you’ve ever seen. And this is what Jesus means, I think, in this very passage when he says, "Love your enemy." And it’s significant that he does not say, "Like your enemy." Like is a sentimental something, an affectionate something. There are a lot of people that I find it difficult to like. I don’t like what they do to me. I don’t like what they say about me and other people. I don’t like their attitudes. I don’t like some of the things they’re doing. I don’t like them. But Jesus says love them. And love is greater than like. Love is understanding, redemptive goodwill for all men, so that you love everybody, because God loves them. You refuse to do anything that will defeat an individual, because you have agape in your soul. And here you come to the point that you love the individual who does the evil deed, while hating the deed that the person does. This is what Jesus means when he says, "Love your enemy." This is the way to do it. When the opportunity presents itself when you can defeat your enemy, you must not do it.

So Jesus says love, because hate destroys the hater as well as the hated. Now there is a final reason I think that Jesus says, "Love your enemies." It is this: that love has within it a redemptive power. And there is a power there that eventually transforms individuals. That’s why Jesus says, "Love your enemies." Because if you hate your enemies, you have no way to redeem and to transform your enemies. But if you love your enemies, you will discover that at the very root of love is the power of redemption. You just keep loving people and keep loving them, even though they’re mistreating you. Here’s the person who is a neighbor, and this person is doing something wrong to you and all of that. Just keep being friendly to that person. Keep loving them. Don’t do anything to embarrass them. Just keep loving them, and they can’t stand it too long. Oh, they react in many ways in the beginning. They react with bitterness because they’re mad because you love them like that. They react with guilt feelings, and sometimes they’ll hate you a little more at that transition period, but just keep loving them. And by the power of your love they will break down under the load. That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies.

And I’m proud to stand here in Dexter this morning and say that that army is still marching. It grew up from a group of eleven or twelve men to more than seven hundred million today. Because of the power and influence of the personality of this Christ, he was able to split history into A.D. and B.C. Because of his power, he was able to shake the hinges from the gates of the Roman Empire. And all around the world this morning, we can hear the glad echo of heaven ring: "Jesus shall reign wherever sun, Does his successive journeys run; His kingdom spreads from shore to shore, Till moon shall wane and wax no more. We can hear another chorus singing: "All hail the power of Jesus name!" We can hear another chorus singing: "Hallelujah, hallelujah! He’s King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Hallelujah, hallelujah!"

We can hear another choir singing: "In Christ there is no East or West. In Him no North or South, But one great Fellowship of Love, Throughout the whole wide world." This is the only way. That love is the only creative, redemptive, transforming power in the universe. So this morning, as I look into your eyes, and into the eyes of all of my brothers in Alabama and all over America and over the world, I say to you, "I love you. I would rather die than hate you." And I’m foolish enough to believe that through the power of this love somewhere, men of the most recalcitrant bent will be transformed. And then we will be in God’s kingdom. We will be able to matriculate into the university of eternal life because we had the power to love our enemies, to bless those persons that cursed us, to even decide to be good to those persons who hated us, and we even prayed for those persons who spitefully used us.

Oh God, help us in our lives and in all of our attitudes, to work out this controlling force of love, this controlling power that can solve every problem that we confront in all areas. Oh, we talk about politics; we talk about the problems facing our atomic civilization. Grant that all men will come together and discover that as we solve the crisis and solve these problems—the international problems, the problems of atomic energy, the problems of nuclear energy, and yes, even the race problem—let us join together in a great fellowship of love and bow down at the feet of Jesus. Give us this strong determination. In the name and spirit of this Christ, we pray. Amen.

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Gathering Agenda

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Summary

Written by Duncan Hamra

What a gift it is to have recordings of Martin Luther King Jr. and his speeches. If you haven't already listened to this week's message, I must insist that you find 10 quick minutes soon to listen. King's message is a timeless, beautifully articulated call for love no matter what. And I'm going to attempt to summarize a few key points for you now.

He starts with the fifth chapter of the gospel of Matthew. "You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven." This passage encapsulates the essence of love beyond mere affection, to what the Greeks would call "agape" — an understanding, creative, redemptive goodwill for all.

King says it's what theologians would call the love of God working in the lives of every human. And when you or I rise to love on this level, we begin to love people, not because they are likeable, but because God loves them. You look at every person, and you love them because you know God loves them.

When this sort of love encounters people suffering from the disease of hatred, greed, illusion, or fear, it meets them with acts of profound moral steadfastness. And it has the power to redeem. King says, "And by the power of your love they will break down under the load. That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies."

Jesus articulated this principle as foundational, that hate destroys both the hater and the hated, whereas love has a redemptive power that can transform adversaries. By loving well over and over again, we dig people out of their delusions, and we hold up what is good in them.

Make no mistake - what Dr. King is asking us to do is not easy. It will not happen by accident, and we shouldn't wait until circumstances have gotten really difficult to start practicing. We need to practice often, and we can start practicing right now. Like exercise, we can start start small and slowly increase the difficulty as we go.

To avoid accidental name calling and fight starting, I'm going to recommend we avoid "naming" our enemies here today. Instead, let's take time to celebrate and notice the people and people groups who we find it most easy to love. My hope is that we can find ways to grow our small circles of love to include more and more people.

Sample Questions

Who do you find it most easy to love? Anyone. Could be a person or pet. Partner or grandparent.

Example: I find it most easy to love kids. Their chaotic energy, bajillion questions, and joy melt me every time. I have never hated a child and I can't imagine I ever will. When they act out, I assume they are tired or hungry. If they do something "bad" I assume it's because no one taught them yet. I really want the best for them.

Love can be a really fuzzy word. Replace the word "Love" in "Love your enemy" with something meaningful to you.

Example: Honor or respect feel like good replacements. I can respect someone even if I don't like them. Respect looks like holding the door, letting someone else go first, letting someone merge into traffic, smiling when someone smiles at me, taking out my earbuds at the checkout line, and that sort of thing. It's about treating everyone the same and with consideration.

"Love everyone" is a bigger, less specific way to say "love your enemies." What might it look like to love everyone in your own life?

Example: Paying attention and being present to whoever I happen to be sharing space with. Be they a cashier, a teacher, a student, etc.

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Sample Questions

Who do you find it most easy to love? Anyone. Could be a person or pet. Partner or grandparent.

Example: I find it most easy to love kids. Their chaotic energy, bajillion questions, and joy melt me every time. I have never hated a child and I can't imagine I ever will. When they act out, I assume they are tired or hungry. If they do something "bad" I assume it's because no one taught them yet. I really want the best for them.

Love can be a really fuzzy word. Replace the word "Love" in "Love your enemy" with something meaningful to you.

Example: Honor or respect feel like good replacements. I can respect someone even if I don't like them. Respect looks like holding the door, letting someone else go first, letting someone merge into traffic, smiling when someone smiles at me, taking out my earbuds at the checkout line, and that sort of thing. It's about treating everyone the same and with consideration.

"Love everyone" is a bigger, less specific way to say "love your enemies." What might it look like to love everyone in your own life?

Example: Paying attention and being present to whoever I happen to be sharing space with. Be they a cashier, a teacher, a student, etc.

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